Think about your 5 closest friends for a moment the 5 people you spend the most time with.
Now where are you in that 5. Are you at the bottom I hope so cos if not your 5 is limiting you if you are in the middle 2 of your friends are helping you grow but 2 of your friends are pulling you down. and if you are the leader of your 5 change because 1 of 2 things will happen you will either help your friends grow which is not a bad thing but very exhausting. Or your 5 friends will drag you down.
You have to keep changing the people you are hanging with the most for your own personal growth remember you are the average of your 5 friends so if your friends are willing to Grow it is unlikely you will grow.
Don't be afraid to talk to new people I was petrified when I first got started in this profession because I was learning something new and didn't want to bother the people who was ahead of me cos I thought they was busy. they only help people who are in their network. will they give away trade secrets.
Believe me I still find people like that today. they put the you tube videos up that teach you things but not everything they keep the good bits till you sign up with them.
I don't blame them but do they look at the bigger picture? I am not saying I am always right but if I ask someone a question and they give me a half ass answer and say if you want my full attention sign up to this. i am not interested and I will not ask them anything again.
That is one of the reasons why I did not get on with Empower network and it turned me of them right away. in there training they do a role play where there is a guy who has not bought into the bigger package. and when they have trouble selling the bigger package they go to their up line and say what tips you got to sell this bigger package. and they say you have not got it why you asking me that down line explains and the cringe factor for me was when Dave Wood has the up line said I am going to put the phone down and don't call me again until you have bought the bigger package.
When I heard that I thought you pompous prick Your down line is asking you for help and you just blew him off. Then I thought not only is he a pompous prick he's a dumb ass because in Empower Network if you don't have the $500 package and one of your down line upgrades to the $500 package you don't get paid for that it jumps to your up line so not only did you treat your down line like shit when all he was doing was asking for help,You just lost $500 Dumb Ass.
Why did he do that because that is probably what his up line did to him and they lost $500 too. Maybe the down line didn't have the cash to dish out $500 on training on how to be a Dumb ass or maybe they are like me. if my up line treat me like that the button I would press after he hung up on me would not be upgrade it would be opt out.
What if you was earning money I hear you cry If I was earning money I would have already up graded. When I Launched my business with Fantaz and I got my 4 active members do you think I said that is all the training video said I had to get I done that let book a holiday. NO! I told more because it is human nature that the the more we get the more we want.
4 add 4 add 4 add 4 7 levels deep why not make it 5 10 15 100. Little steps lead to big goals I got my 4 active members then I wanted 10 then I wanted 20 today I just signed my 70th member My goal by the end of August is 100 that is 30 people in 9 days 3 people per day 4 at the weekend.
Just remember if you get Joe blogs in your down line and the first thing Joe blogs says to you is what do I do I am New to this. Don't Sigh and think here we go. Take him and show him step by step like your teaching your son Daughter niece nephew how to do something. congratulate him/her when when they get there first sign up. because the end of the day 1, That new person could be the person who is going to whip your ass at this no matter how good you are. 2, That persons growth is putting money in your pocket.
Remember that.
Dean T
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